Compassion Leads to Passion

Newlywed GriefWe all know that not every day in life is the best day ever…as a matter of fact we also know that none of us are immune to bad days, weeks, months and unfortunately even years.  When I have a bad day all I want to do is go home and be with my husband. Truly, nothing makes me feel better than a nice warm embrace from him because he knows what to say or how to act to put a smile back on my face.  He is a compassionate person by nature.  Are you?   I consider myself to be a compassionate person because when something goes wrong in someone else’s life I naturally find myself thinking of ways I can attempt to make them feel better (i.e. by listening, being a shoulder to cry on or even through humor).  Compassion, by definition is a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering (Dictionary.com).  As a spouse you should always want to make your husband/wife feel better when they’re down, but the truth is that sometimes you don’t know what to do or say. There are circumstances that unfortunately almost nothing will make your spouse feel better in that moment (i.e. a death or loss of job); however, that doesn’t mean you can’t just be there.  Here are a few things that may help your spouse feel better the next time he has a rough day:

Cook his favorite meal: We know the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, so if you get home before he does whip up his favorite meal (even if it isn’t part of your strict diet).  No time to cook his favorite meal?  Try taking him to his favorite restaurant instead…there’s no prep in that!

Watch his favorite movie: So what if you’re not into war movies or raunchy comedies like he is…just cuddle up with him on the couch and know that you are helping him feel better.  Here’s a list of 50 Best Guy Movies of All-Time in case you need a little direction…sorry ladies, but The Notebook didn’t make the list.

Give him as massage: The poor guy’s feeling stressed out and could use a good rub down.  You can use massage oils or lotion if you have it…if not, I’m sure he’ll be happy with your hands all over him.

Give him a surprise in the bedroom: Dress up in your sexiest lingerie, give him a lap dance, or…we’ll leave it up to your imagination!

The point here is to always do whatever you can to make each other happy because life is too short to do anything less. Are you a compassionate person?  Tell us what you do/have done to make others feel better in their time of need.

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