Sex

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4 New Reasons Newlywed Sex Rocks!

We all know newlywed sex rocks. But guess what? There’s health benefits for both of you too! Very few women will dispute the fact that newlyweds have a “glow” about them. Is it a reflection of finding everlasting love or the excitement of starting a new life together? Well, one study shows that the number one thing behind the newlywed glow is sex. You got it ladies….lots of lovin’ equals better looks! Here are a few more benefits of a healthy sex life:

Help Your Heart – Not only does sex draw you intimately closer as a couple, it’s good for your heart. Several studies have concluded that a woman’s risk of dying from heart disease decreases as the frequency of her orgasms increase over time. Just one more reason to make sure you get in some QT between the sheets!

Keep Your Spouse Cancer Free – While female orgasms help protect against heart disease, research is beginning to suggest that the frequency of male orgasms can proportionally decrease the risk of prostate cancer. You’re always looking out for your man, and here’s yet another way to boost his health and happiness!

Improve Your Slumber – You know how easy it is to pass out after great sex? It turns out that there’s scientific evidence that sex improves your sleep quality. Now you can feel free to snooze after he puts on the moves. You also have a remedy for nights when you’re having trouble falling asleep.

De-Stress – Guess what? Healthy sex gives the brain the same soothing effects of high sugar comfort foods when it comes to lowering your stress level. Researchers think that this stress reduction happens because the pleasure pathways of the brain are triggered by sex (just as they are by ice cream and chocolate)! Remember this fact the next time that a giant work project has you reaching for the Rocky Road.

So now that you know all of the amazing benefits of a hot blooded romp…feel free to share this information with your spouse. Who knows, you might keep that newlywed glow going for another year or more!

Research information from EverydayHealth.com. Check them out for 4 more reasons newlywed sex rocks!

Hot Newlywed Sex: Yes Please!

Let’s hear it for newlywed sex! I just read a reporter’s request for feedback from women who have tried the “new trend” of having testosterone pellets implanted under the skin of their backs to increase their libidos. Who does that?! As newlyweds, we’re a blessed segment of the population when it comes to hot sex and its frequency. That being said, who doesn’t want a little boost in the bedroom? Here are few non-surgical ideas to try out the next time you’re looking for inspiration.

Steamy Movie Scene – Pick a favorite steamy scene from a movie you’ve both watched and try it out. Need some suggestions? Choose something from Jerry Maguire, Unfaithful, Pretty Woman (if you’re a die-hard romantic) or Eyes Wide Shut. I’m sure your hubby might be able to help select a scene too!

Body Paint – Get in touch with your artsy/sexy side with a chocolate body paint kit. You can decorate each others bodies and lick it off, or decorate your own bodies and surprise each other with the results. Arrows pointing to certain places can act as a sensual guide for your amour.

Raincoat Moment – This is a risky maneuver, but if you pull it off it will be something your spouse talks about for the rest of his life. If your man has his own office (with a lock), show up to take him out to lunch in a raincoat, a pair of heels and nothing else. Obviously you’re not going to actually have lunch! Please weigh the possibilities of being caught in the act and possible unemployment before trying this one.

Somewhere Different – You know how vacation sex is always a little more fabulous? Part of that has to do with “doing it” in new surroundings. Book a room at a boutique hotel or set up a romantic scene in your attic as a surprise for your mate.

Wig Out – This suggestion might not work for everyone, but consider purchasing a wig that is radically different from your normal hair. If you’ve got short black hair go for long and blonde and if you’ve got long brown hair, go for short and red. You’ll get to feel like a totally different woman and your husband will get to experience sex with a totally different you!

What are you steamy secrets for keeping newlywed sex hot? Share a PG-13 comment with our readers today!

6 Bad Newlywed Habits That Can Ruin Your Marriage

Skip these newlywed habits that can ruin your marriage ladies! We all know the odds are stacked against us newlyweds these days with the divorce rate through the roof (50% being 1 out of 2 marriages), so now more than ever couples need to keep the lines of communication open and honest.

There are so many things that can ruin a marriage and no one is perfect! Try to stay away from the following bad habits and rest assured that the bond between you and your partner will continue to grow together rather than apart.

Bad Habit #1: Keeping Secrets. Whether it’s about finances, friends or your career; there’s no room for secrets in a marriage. I’m not talking about when your best friend says, “Swear you won’t tell anyone about…” I’m talking about hiding big purchases, not talking to your spouse about your feelings, etc.

Bad Habit #2: Disorganization. You may find that from time to time your home office looks like a bomb went off, but if your entire home is in disarray it may be time to do some serious housekeeping! Being disorganized will cause you both to feel anxious and out of control. It could cause you to miss due dates on important bills, adding unnecessary stress to you and your spouse; which will undoubtedly strain your relationship.

Bad Habit #3: Confiding in Relatives and Friends instead of your partner. One of the best parts of being married is always having someone to confide in and not having to worry about being judged for your opinions. You certainly would not appreciate finding out that your husband/wife confided in a parent, friend, co-worker or neighbor about something that he/she should have trusted you with. It hurts, don’t do it.

Bad Habit #4: Constant Criticism. It’s ok not to agree with each other all the time (you are allowed to be individuals with your own opinions); however nagging your spouse constantly about the little things that really do not matter in the scheme of life will result in a lot of fighting and negative feelings in your marriage.

Bad Habit #5: No Sex Life. Careers, children and other responsibilities and obligations are the cause of exhaustion—we all get it! Remember sex is one (major) key to a happy marriage and without it the two of you will be left feeling disconnected and will be more like roommates rather than husband and wife. Get out the lingerie and pretend like you’re dating again so you don’t become one of the 15-20% of couples in a sexless marriage (sex 10 or less times per year—yikes)! You can watch videos for advice on this topic, and to get a better understanding of just how many couples will experience this issue in their marriage.

Bad Habit #6: Forgetting the important words. Saying please and thank you have always been important words in my house, but saying I love you each and every day at least once is the most important. While actions may speak louder than words, reminding your partner that you love them is the utmost important thing you can ever say to them.

Can you add to our list of newlywed habits that can ruin your marriage? Tell us another bad habit that you avoid and why. You never know whose marriage you could be saving just by sharing your thoughts!

5 Things Every Newlywed Needs In Their Bedroom

Aside from love, trust and understanding, there are a few extra things newlyweds can benefit from having in their bedrooms. Read on to see our top picks…

Candles – EVERYONE looks better in candlelight plus it’s romantic! Hint: pick a candle scent that gives you both a similar vibe. If vanilla reminds you of an exotic vacation, but it reminds your husband of his grandma’s kitchen…well you may not end up with the same ideas around bedtime.

Something You Feel Sexy in – Whatever makes you feel good about your body, be it lingerie, a silk robe, a tiny cami set or a comfy t-shirt.

Drapes (LOL) – Even if you’re a touch voyeuristic, you don’t want to be the topic of neighborhood conversation. If your house or apartment didn’t come with window coverings, invest in some asap!

Music – Cue the Barry White…or not! Put together a sweet or saucy playlist for an evening endeavor or buy a CD specifically for the bedroom. Here’s a site that might give you some ideas.

Lube – You might not need it all the time, but it can help make more adventurous positions a lot more comfortable (hey we all read Cosmo )!

*Bonus: Chocolate Body Paint – Combining two of the best things in life….sex and chocolate. What could be better? Karma Sutra makes a great set that includes dark, milk and white chocolate. Enjoy!
What do you think are the most important things newlyweds can keep in their bedroom?

Try to keep your comments PG-13 ladies!