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Fox 40 Interview: Marriage Name Change

MissNowMrs.com’s founder was interviewed about marriage name change and all of the in’s and out’s of the process last week on Sacramento FOX 40 News. She also shared some pointers for newlyweds navigating the process on their own.

What’s the inside scoop? Danielle suggested that brides discuss their name change with their spouses prior to getting married and then stay very organized when preparing for their name change. Knowing your individual state’s name-change requirements can save you hours of hassle and multiple trips to state and government offices.

With over 80,000 customers, MissNowMrs.com is an excellent resource for expert married name change information as well as online name-change services so check us out today!

Avoiding the ‘Comfort Weight’ of Marriage

Have you heard of the comfort weight of marriage? The weight of a wedding ring on your hand is a wonderful and comforting thing. However…post wedding poundage really isn’t either of those things. There are a few things that might be considered stereotypical, but that do tend to be truth when it comes to the wedding and the days thereafter. Brides (and grooms) tend to want to look their best for their big day. So, part of the preparation for the wedding is often the pre-marriage diet/exercise plan (hello gym membership, body pump classes, spinning etc.). Exercise and better eating combine and will usually result in the shedding of unwanted pounds in time for that final dress fitting.

Yet, when the celebration is over, many couples will let go of the healthy pattern that was developed before their vows. In fact, this phenomenon is so common that many people have come to refer to the pounds gained after tying the knot as ‘comfort weight.’

If you want to avoid gaining the post-party pounds or if you are the newlywed who has suddenly found that the jeans from last year don’t fit all that well anymore, then There are a few changes you can make to keep you at a healthy weight and also strengthen the bond of your marriage.

Invest in a Home Gym – If you have the space in your house or apartment, a home gym – even in the simplest of forms – can serve as a great place to remain thin and trim or to return to that status. Plus, having it right there means that you and your hubby can share in the activity together and keep each other on track.

Take a Nightly Stroll – Many couples have a tendency to lose touch of romance after they’ve wed. A great way to keep connected and get the workout you both need, is through an evening walk. After the dinner table has been cleared, the two of you can set off together. For more athletic couples, this can even be transformed into a nightly run.

Couples’ Cooking – Part of the reason that young married couples have a tendency to pack on extra pounds is because the ritual of nightly dinners hasn’t yet been established. Instead, newlyweds will choose to eat out or order in, which usually means higher fat and calories when compared to a homemade meal. Solution: use the evening meal as a bonding time and work together to create something that tastes wonderful and is good for you.

Remember, sharing in the activities that are good for your health will make it easier for the two of you to stay on track and keep off the comfort weight of marriage. It’s fun to challenge each other and keep in shape as a couple…you’ll both be glad you did!

What ways have you and your partner come up with to stay in shape? We’d love for you to share your ideas with us in a comment!

Choosing the Right Dog to Match Your Marriage

Dog in Wedding — Choose you dog in marriage

Okay, so maybe you aren’t quite ready for the responsibility of a newborn in your life, or perhaps you don’t intend to ever have children, but the idea of having a little extra company around the house after marriage can be very appealing for many young couples. In fact, a very large percentage of newlyweds find themselves in the market for a puppy. But, like a baby, a puppy comes with many new responsibilities and big changes to a household and even your married relationship. Choosing the right breed is key to everyone’s happiness!

The Small Dog: The first thing to consider is the size of dog that is most likely to fit your space. A small apartment in the city is not likely to accommodate larger breeds, especially those who love to run. Thus, your living arrangements might limit your choices immediately. For those who aren’t so confined, the decision will likely be based more on personal preference. A small dog can be a wonderful addition to the home, but these little guys are also very fragile. They must be babied a bit as they are susceptible to cold, injury, and digestive problems. For those who are looking for a loving companion that adores its owner and will be playfully content indoors, a small dog can be the perfect pal.

The Active Dog: As stated above, when it comes to small homes without access to convenient outdoor areas to run, the active dog is probably not a good choice for you. However, for those with an enclosed backyard or lots of room to run, active dogs can make wonderful partners. The spaniels, labs, and retrievers of the world are often willing to become workout companions for the runner or walker. Who doesn’t need a workout buddy that won’t take no for answer?! Water-loving dogs might be the perfect fit for a couple near the ocean, lake, or pond, and for the outdoor enthusiast, a dog breed for hunting will likely be a wonderful fit.

The Big Dog: If a small dog is not the right fit and an overly active dog won’t fit your relaxed lifestyle, then it might be time to consider the largest breeds. Though they will still need outdoor time and they do require a lot of indoor space, these huge hearts are loving, loyal, and often on the lazy side – at least as they get a little older. However, do be prepared for a hyper puppy, regardless of the breed you choose. Like a child, puppies need a lot of love, a lot of care, and a lot of attention in the early years. A final note on the larger of the four-legged loves of the world — big dogs can also be major sources of drool,though, so you might want to have the ‘jowel towel’ nearby.

Whatever dog you choose, adding a 4 legged friend to your family is a wonderful part of newlywed life. Taking your time and considering your options before you take the “puppy plunge” should lead to years of love and companionship down the road. Did you get a dog right after you got married? What options did you consider or wish you’d considered? We’d love to hear from you in a comment! Get more Newlywed Advice from our experts or follow the flow on IG.

Newlywed Budget Setting

There are many important things to discuss as newlyweds. But, among the most frequently mentioned is the issue of finances. Money can easily become the cause of major rifts in the relationship. Most people differ in opinions regarding how money should be spent, when it should be spent, and how much should be saved. The best thing that you can do for yourself, your bank account, and your relationship is to set aside time to do newlywed budget setting.

Don’t work side by side over the same piece of paper or the same computer screen. It is be better to go through the process individually and then compare notes. This serves two purposes. First, if one person overlooks a particular expense, the other is likely to think to add it. Secondly, it demonstrates how differently the two of you look at income, expenses, and the percentage to be saved versus that to be spent.

Newlywed Budget Creation Tips

First, create four columns – two for income and the others for expenditures. For each, there is a column for bills or income sources to be listed and the other is for the associated figures to be entered. At the end of the columns, the figures can be summed. Do be sure to take into account gross versus net pay. You won’t want to determine your budget based on gross pay because a large percentage is taken out for taxes each pay period. If you are not sure what the net value is, you can estimate is by multiplying the gross pay by 0.8.

Still a little lost? Check out newlywedfinances.com for more help with newlywed budget setting.

Comparing the total of the income column to the total of the expenses column will give you a clear picture of how much is left after the bills are paid. Consider figuring this as a monthly, weekly, and daily value. This way, you will know what you have to spend each day. At that point, you can figure out how much should be put into savings. Then compare your figures with your spouse’s until you can come to an agreement. Finally, you can create a firm and realistic budget.

Sticking to this schedule, you will know exactly how much there is to spend each day. And, you will know that you are always on the same page as your spouse. Hooray for a workable newlywed budget!

Do you and your spouse have a budget? Was it difficult to come up with one or are you wishing you had one? We’d love to get your feedback on newlywed budget setting.

Name Change Forms & Travel Tips on WJXT TV

Looking for name change forms and travel tips? Danielle Tate, the founder of MissNowMrs.com adn the MissNowMrs app, was on the WJXT’s Morning Show last Monday to talk about the multitude of forms a woman needs to file to change her name after marriage. She also gave some great travel tips related to name change.

We hope you learn a few things from this clip of her sharing her expertise with one of the the hosts of Jacksonville’s Morning Show.

What were the tips? Danielle suggested that brides understand their state’s filing procedures before beginning the name change process and pay attention to the specific order they must file their forms in.

Another insider tip she shared was for ladies to book their honeymoon travel in their maiden names and to pay for travel insurance to avoid any name-related issues at the airport.

Do you have questions about name change forms and travel tips in your state? MissNowMrs your source for expert married name change information so check us out today!

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