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May 16 2017

2 Ways to File For Your Married Name on Your Social Security Card

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When you decide to change your name after marriage, the first thing you typically thinks of is your Social Security Card. And, you’re right! Filing to updated to your married name with the Social Security Administration is at the top of the name-change list. There are 2 Ways to File For Your Married Name on your Social Security Card. Read on to find out what they are!

I vividly remember standing in the endless line at the Social Security office when I got married. There was an armed guard at the entrance. And, no one was allowed to use their phones. That experience definitely took some of the wind out of my newlywed sails.

Guess what? That doesn’t have to happen to you. You have options when filing for your married name with the Social Security Administration. There are two ways to file for your new Social Security Card.

Method 1: File for our Social Security Card By Mail

Too busy to take time off of work to file for your new Social Security Card? Elect to file by mail! Simply complete the SS-5 form, include a certified marriage certificate, and your driver’s license or U.S. Passport (photocopies are not accepted.) Mail them to the Social Security Administration Office within your city. Two important things: If you do not have a passport to file with your form, do not mail in your driver’s license. This leaves you driving without proper ID for a minimum of 2 weeks. Also, as you are mailing important documents, we highly recommend using certified mail.

Method 2: File the SS-5 In Person

If you do not have a U.S. Passport to use as your identification document, or if you’re paranoid that your form and passport might get lost, filing in person is the option for you. When you file for your new Social Security card at the office, the clerk will take your form, make copies of your license or passport and marriage certificate and then give them right back to you. Your new Social Security card with your new name will be mailed to you within 10-14 business days. To minimize your wait time, we advise filing mid-week around 2:00pm.

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Written by Danielle Tate · Categorized: Name Change After Marriage for Newlyweds · Tagged: bride, filing tips, Married Name Change, Name Change after Marriage, Newlywed, social security card, social security name change

Apr 19 2017

Wedding Pro Wednesday: Jon Mervis

Wedding Pro Wednesday Jon Mervis

It’s Wedding Pro Wednesday, and I couldn’t be happier to introduce you to Jonathan Mervis. Jon is an “artist of business growth” at Mervis Diamond Importers. And, one of the nicest DC entrepreneurs you will meet. Perhaps his “sparkling” personality runs in the family! With direct access to the world’s finest diamonds, Mervis offers an amazing array of magnificent diamonds. By importing directly, Mervis eliminates the middleman and provides unbeatable prices daily. Their guiding mission is very simple. Provide the finest quality diamonds at the lowest price to the most people. Their obsession with this is the driving force behind the company’s continued success. If you have inherited a family business, or are in the midst of wedding ring shopping, don’t miss Jon’s answers and advice below!

Have you always been a wedding professional? If not, what was your previous career?
Yes – my family has been in the diamond and jewelry business for over 80 years! My grandfather started our company in Johannesburg, South Africa and I’m the third generation. I joined the family business full time after graduating with my MBA in 2009.

As a kid before joining the family business, I had several small businesses and little ventures. Just after undergrad, I started a clothing line called Crooked Monkey. We made graphic t-shirts and sold to companies like Urban Outfitters and Nordstrom. In college, I didn’t want to get a boring summer job and so I started a company doing the only thing I was qualified to do at 19 years old:  Take the SAT’s. So, I started an SAT tutoring company with some friends. And amazingly, we were able to really help local high schoolers improve their scores!

What inspired you to create your company?
I’m really grateful to work in a family business and continue the family tradition that my grandfather started. While the diamond ring is a timeless tradition – the world of today is so very different than it was for my grandfather and even father’s generation. What drives me is the challenge and joy to continually adapt and innovate. We need to continue to do what our clients appreciate while also finding new ways to appeal to tomorrow’s bride.

What was your biggest obstacle and failure in going from idea to business?
The biggest obstacle for any multi-generational business is often the balance between longstanding traditions that have proved successful versus new ways of doing business.

What do you love most about your job?
I love meeting couples that are just so happy together and excited to get married! DC is an exciting place, bringing together interesting people from all over the world for any variety of reasons. I love hearing our client’s stories, not just about how they met, but about their lives and what’s important to them.

What is your best advice for brides related to your area of expertise?
When you’re planning your wedding and budgeting costs, remember to consider the lifetime value of each part. You will keep your photos and wedding rings forever. You’ll wear your wedding rings every day and keep getting joy from them! On the other hand, many other parts of the wedding will be consumed within a few hours. You’ll want flowers to make the ceremony beautiful, but it’s helpful to remember that your flowers won’t last and budget accordingly.

What is your best of advice for newlyweds Jon Mervis?
My one piece of advice is to stay humble. Remember that neither one of you is 100% right at any point and the other 100%  wrong. Look for the good in your partner and you’ll always find something to smile about!

Jon Mervis with the Mervis team

We hope you loved all that Jon Mervis had to share. From his story, to his advice on jewelry and relationships. We can’t help you with diamonds. But, should you be ready to change your name, MissNowMrs can save you 13 hours of hassle!

Written by Danielle Tate · Categorized: Newlywed Needs, Wedding Pro Wednesday · Tagged: Advice, bride, engaged, Engagement Rings, Jonathan Mervis, Mervis Diamonds, Newlywed, Wedding Pro Wednesda, Wedding Professional, Wedding Rings

Apr 12 2017

Wedding Pro Wednesday: Kimberly Dean

Wedding Pro Wednesday: Kimberly Dean

Today I am excited to introduce you to Kimberly Dean, the founder of Kimberly Dean Photos  and publisher of Valley Bride Wedding Guide. Her company specializes in understanding a client’s uniqueness so they can capture that essence in photos!  

I met her at a sorority sister’s wedding and then noticed that my Facebook feed was continuously flooded with gorgeous images from her engagement, wedding, equestrian, and baby photo shoots. I am a photography snob, so if I like it, 99.9% of the population will as well! I also had the opportunity to experience Kimberly as a photographer at one of my best friend’s weddings. There were none of the fussy, stiff photo set-ups. Instead there were playful shots that showed the bride’s true colors and the entire feel of her big day.

If you are curious about professional photography for your wedding, or photography as a possible career, Kimberly’s story and advice are ideal for you. Read her candid answers to my questions below!

Have you always been a wedding professional? If not, what was your previous career?
No, I spend ten years working in online publishing for Agora Inc. as a marketing strategist, copywriter, and advertising buyer.

What inspired you to create your company?
As a wedding photographer, I meet so many couples who are very inspiring and hold such gorgeous weddings. My natural tendency to learn about people and my journalistic mindset sparked the idea to begin a wedding publication. I live in an area, just next to the Greenspring Valley,  full of horse country and oodles of wedding venues. The North County, which touches the valley, also holds so many talented wedding professionals: from florists and caterers… to photographers and dress shops. Creating a geographically niche publication for the area just made sense. Start small, start local, and see where it leads.

What was your biggest obstacle and failure in going from idea to business?
Getting over my own self doubts and fear of failure were hands down the greatest obstacles. Once I began taking one step forward, however, the other steps luckily came easier and easier. Meeting some fellow publishers randomly at a coffee shop one day, who coincidentally were also starting a new home owner’s magazine in the same location, felt like a sign I was headed in the right direction. Having them to partner with for printing our magazines together also kept me on target with my deadlines. Sometimes you just meet the right people at the right time. This serendipitous chance meeting really helped me believe I was where I was supposed to be.

What do you love most about your job?
Both wedding photography and publishing entail telling stories. Whether it’s through photographic documentation or written words, storytelling and making memories are the common denominator for the two. I love the process of creating and sharing the final outcome. I’m also a hopeless romantic who loves details. I want to capture the emotion… the look… the vibe… the story. On the publishing side, interviewing and learning about the professionals behind all the wedding day magic also fascinates me because there’s so much talent there.

What is your best advice for brides related to your area of expertise?
I hope that brides and couples remember that although weddings do take so much time and money… that the ultimate goal is to enjoy the day you’ve been planning for. Remember what it’s all about. Remember why you fell in love, what the day represents, and don’t let any surprises or bloopers take away from that joy. Life is full of the unexpected, and weddings are no different. All the careful planning and meticulous detail in the world can’t prevent some kind of a hiccup on the day of a wedding. Laugh it off and consider it all part of the adventure. That’s really my best piece of advice. Laugh it off together.

What is your best advice for newlyweds? 
I continue to keep in touch with couples post wedding who come back to me to photograph their first child’s portraits and family pictures, so I get to see how the marriage appears to be holding up. None of us can know for sure, but it seems to me that those who look the happiest have a true friendship. There’s an admiration there as well, and mutual respect, that maintains that friendship and helps bond them through life’s ups and downs. So, I suppose my best piece of advice is to make time to nurture the marriage and… stay friends.

Kimberly Dean Magazine

Photo Credits: Kimberly Dean Photos (obviously)

Written by Danielle Tate · Categorized: Wedding Pro Wednesday · Tagged: bride, Female Founder, Kimberly Dean, Kimberly Dean Photos, Newlywed, Wedding Photographer, Wedding Planning, Wedding Pro Wednesday, Women In Business

Mar 06 2017

The Perfect Bridal Shower Gift Formula

Bridal Shower Gift

Are you searching for the perfect bridal shower gift this season? Before the big days of friends and family members comes a flurry of brunches, teas, and afternoons filled with celebrating the bride-to-be. While every event may be different, you do need a shower gift. Not to worry, we have the perfect formula to help you bring the best shower gift for each of your friends!

Something Nostalgic + Something Helpful + Something Beautiful = The Perfect Shower Gift

Something Nostalgic
The first component of your gift should be something that will remind the bride of your friendship or her new relationship. If she met her fiancé in Spain, a tapas cookbook or a gift card to a Spanish restaurant would be perfect! If the two of you spent hours at a particular shop or spa, a goodie from that establishment is a great way to remind her of all of the good times you have had as friends.


Something Helpful
If you’re already married you have amassed married knowledge your friend needs. Think of something that was difficult for you as a newlywed or something you wish someone had given you. A MissNowMrs gift card is a perfect component for your perfect shower gift. It saves the bride 13 hours of hassle on her name change! Instead of standing in long office lines and stressing about what form to file when and where, she’ll breeze through the process in 30 minutes! You will absolutely receive a thank you note for this gift!


Something Beautiful
Weddings are filled with beauty, so of course wedding shower gifts should have a beautiful component. This can range from a mini perfume with floral notes for her wedding day, to gorgeous wrapping paper in her wedding colors, to your favorite bridal beauty item. Again, think of your friend. If she isn’t into super fussy things, skip the lace and give her elegant stationary or an engraved business card holder in her new name.

We hope this formula helps you create perfect personalized bridal shower gifts for the amazing women in your life. Enjoy this season of love!

Written by Danielle Tate · Categorized: Bridal Style, Events & More, Newlywed Needs · Tagged: bridal shower gift, bride, gift, showers, wedding shower gift

Nov 14 2016

Name Change After Marriage in Alabama

Name change after marriage in Alabama

Alabama is the one state where nobody ever handed you a marriage license, because since 2019 Alabama has not issued them. What you have instead is a single notarized form, recorded at a probate court, and the state says in capital letters that it is the only proof of your marriage you will ever receive. Every counter in this guide wants a certified copy of that one document, so the whole name change hangs off it.

What a Name Change After Marriage in Alabama Costs

Cost & Time at a Glance

CostRoughly $55 to $75 for the core steps, and which end you land on depends entirely on where you buy your certified copies. Social Security and voter registration are free.
TimeCertified copies the same day if you ask the probate clerk while you are recording. Social Security card by mail, then the license office, then the car.
DeadlineThe one hard clock is before the wedding paperwork is done: the certificate must reach a probate court within 30 days of the later signature (Ala. Code 22-9A-17).
StepAlabama cost
Certified copies from the probate court that recorded your certificateSet by the court. Jefferson County publishes $3.00 each
The same copy from the state (ADPH) instead$15.00 for the first, $6.00 each additional in the same order, $15.00 more to expedite
Social Security cardFree. No online option in Alabama
Driver license name change$31.25 duplicate
Replacement vehicle title$15.00, plus a $1.50 agent commission and any local fee
Alabama voter registrationFree
Concealed carry permitNot required in Alabama at all

Passport, federal and optional: free on DS-5504 if your book was issued less than a year ago, otherwise $130 by mail on DS-82. See our passport name change guide.

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Step 1: The Form That Replaced the Marriage License

Alabama abolished the marriage license. Under Act 2019-340, county probate courts stopped issuing them and stopped requiring a ceremony. What exists now is the Alabama Marriage Certificate form: both spouses complete it, each signature is witnessed by a notary, and the original is delivered to any Alabama county probate court for recording. Alabama Marriage Certificate form

Two details on that form catch people out. The first is the clock: the original must reach a probate court within 30 days of the later of the two signatures. Ala. Code 22-9A-17 says the recording “establishes legal recognition of the marriage as of the date the affidavits and forms were properly signed,” but only if the paperwork arrives inside that window. The second is the notary: ADPH states that “a form notarized by a non-Alabama notary shall not be accepted.” A notary two states over will not do.

Then read the sentence ADPH prints in capitals: “THIS IS THE ONLY DOCUMENT YOU WILL RECEIVE AS PROOF OF YOUR MARRIAGE.” There is no license, no second certificate in the post, nothing else. ADPH filing instructions

So buy your certified copies at the counter. ADPH’s own instructions say you “may request a certified copy from the court when you record your Marriage Certificate,” and Jefferson County publishes those at $3.00 each. Order the same three copies from the state afterwards and you pay $15.00 for the first and $6.00 for each of the others. Three copies at the courthouse: about nine dollars. Three copies from the state: twenty-seven. Jefferson County probate court · our guide to certified marriage certificates

Step 2: Social Security, and Alabama Cannot Do It Online

Alabama is not one of the states that lets you file this over the internet. Social Security’s internet replacement card policy marks Alabama yes for a plain replacement card with no change to it, and no for a last name change due to marriage. That means form SS-5, by post or in person, and no shortcut.

It is free, your number never changes, and you will need a certified copy of your recorded marriage certificate. Do this before the license office, because ALEA asks for proof your name has already been changed with Social Security. Social Security name change · our Social Security name change guide

Alabama has 22 Social Security field offices:

OfficeAddressCityZIPPhone
Albertville406 Martling RdAlbertville35951(800) 521-0073
Alexander City63 Aliant ParkwayAlexander City35010(877) 405-0483
Andalusia605 Stanley AveAndalusia36420(877) 405-7657
Anniston801 Quintard AveAnniston36201(877) 701-2139
Auburn2454 E University DrAuburn36830(877) 512-3857
Bessemer5475 Academy WayBessemer35022(866) 593-5647
Birmingham Dt1200 Rev Abraham Woods Jr Blvd NBirmingham35285(866) 592-3734
Birmingham East1972 Gadsden HwyBirmingham35235(866) 613-2743
Cullman1908 Commerce Ave NwCullman35055(877) 803-6323
Decatur717 Mcglathery Ln SeDecatur35601(888) 289-9185
Dothan1778 Whatley DriveDothan36303(877) 452-4192
Fairhope101 Courthouse DrFairhope36532(866) 837-5964
Florence203 South Walnut StFlorence35630(855) 884-3407
Gadsden204 Enterprise DriveGadsden35904(877) 316-4418
Huntsville4970 Research Drive,NwHuntsville35805(866) 593-0665
Jackson4249 N College AveJackson36545(877) 476-4484
Jasper501 The Mall WayJasper35504(877) 575-5199
Mobile550 Government StMobile36602(866) 593-1922
Montgomery4344 Carmichael RdMontgomery36106(866) 593-0914
Selma120 Executive Park LnSelma36701(877) 628-6541
Talladega736 North Street EastTalladega35160(877) 619-2854
Tuscaloosa2005 University Blvd, Suite 1200Tuscaloosa35401(877) 480-4988
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Step 3: The License, and the $31.25 Nobody Prints

This is where the published numbers fall apart. The old version of this page said $18.50. Most name-change sites say $36. ALEA’s own fee schedule, printed on form DL-100, says “$31.25 Duplicate – Any License / ID” and “$36.25 Renewal – Standard License / ID.” A name change is a duplicate, not a renewal, so the number you should budget is $31.25. ALEA form DL-100 fee schedule

ALEA states the rule plainly: “If you have changed your name, you must visit a local probate or licensing office, or visit an ALEA Driver License Office to be issued a duplicate license at the normal duplicate fee.” Note the three doors. In Alabama the probate office does licenses as well as marriages, so the counter that recorded your certificate may also be the counter that reissues your license. ALEA driver license

Take your certified marriage certificate and proof that Social Security already has the new name, which in practice means the new card. Our driver license name change guide covers what happens at the counter. ALEA document requirements and fees

One narrow mail option. Alabama will do a name change by post, but only if you are temporarily out of state, and only for a listed reason: deployed military and their dependents, out-of-state full-time students, out-of-state employment, missionaries, people under a doctor’s care or serving as a caregiver out of state, and Alabamians unable to visit an issuing office. You must have held an Alabama license or ID with your picture and signature in the last four years. DL-100 asks for “photocopies of legal name change documentation and updated social security card,” and it takes money orders or cashier’s checks only. A first STAR ID still cannot be added by mail.

Step 4: The Car, and You Can Do This One Online

Your license does not update your title. Alabama charges a $15.00 non-refundable application fee for a replacement certificate of title, and the Department of Revenue says the owner name on the application “must be the current legal name of the owner(s).” Alabama Department of Revenue: replacement titles

Two things soften it. The first is that you can file it yourself through ADOR’s Public Title Portal rather than queueing anywhere. The second is that the real total is a little above the headline: a designated agent adds a $1.50 commission per application, a License Plate Issuing Official may collect another $1.50, and some counties charge a local fee on top. Ring your county License Plate Issuing Official if you want the exact figure before you file.

Where Your Alabama Marriage Record Lives

Three counters can sell you a certified copy, at three different prices, and the cheapest one is the one you are standing in on the day you record:

WhereWhat it can give youCost
The probate court that recorded your certificateCertified copies, requested at the moment of recordingSet by each court. Jefferson County publishes $3.00 each
Any Alabama county health departmentIn-person certified copies, once the Center for Health Statistics has filed the recordADPH price list
ADPH Center for Health StatisticsThe statewide registry copy, in person, online, by mail or by phone$15.00 first copy including the search, $6.00 each additional in the same order, $15.00 to expedite

The probate court keeps your original form and forwards the certificate to the Center for Health Statistics, so there is a gap after the wedding when the state cannot help you yet and the courthouse can. That is the window in which to buy copies. ADPH marriage certificates

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Which Married Name Can You Take in Alabama?

If you are taking your spouse’s surname, the recorded marriage certificate is the whole legal story. No court, no petition, no filing fee. It is the document ALEA lists as a valid name change document, and the one Social Security wants.

Anything more elaborate is worth a phone call rather than an assumption. A hyphenated surname, or moving your maiden name into the middle slot, is asserted all over the internet as automatic in Alabama, but no Alabama state source actually says so. Ask the license office what they will accept before you decide, because the answer governs every card you own afterwards.

If you want a name your marriage record does not show, that is a probate court petition in your county of residence. It is a different process from the one in this guide, and it is worth talking to the court before you file.

What Newlyweds Get Wrong in Alabama

Waiting for a marriage license to arrive. It never will. Alabama stopped issuing them in 2019, and if you are waiting for one before you start your name change you will wait forever. The recorded certificate is it.

Using a notary from another state. ADPH will not accept it, and neither will the probate court. If you signed in front of an out-of-state notary you have a form that does not work and a 30 day clock running.

Leaving the courthouse without certified copies. This is the expensive one. Copies bought at the counter while you record cost a few dollars; the same copies from the state cost fifteen for the first and six for each of the rest.

Budgeting the wrong license fee. Both numbers in wide circulation are wrong. It is not $18.50 and it is not $36. ALEA charges $31.25 for a duplicate.

Going to the license office before Social Security has finished. ALEA wants proof the name has already changed with Social Security, and Alabama has no online Social Security option, so that leg takes real time. Do it first.

Alabama Income Tax

We are not going to promise you a form here, because Alabama does not publish one. My Alabama Taxes has a “Names and Addresses” tab, but every published instruction we could find describes it for changing an address. There is no individual legal-name-change form on the Department of Revenue website.

So do the verified thing rather than the invented one: file your Alabama return in the name that matches your Social Security record, which is the record the state cross-checks. If your situation is more complicated than that, ring the Alabama Taxpayer Service Center nearest you and ask, rather than filing something and hoping.

The Alabama Card You Do Not Have to Worry About

Concealed carry: nothing to update, because nothing is required. Act 2022-133 “repealed the Permit to Carry Pistol in Vehicle or Concealed law and eliminates the requirement for Alabama citizens to obtain a permit to carry a concealed pistol.” ALEA gun laws

A permit is still available, and optional, from the sheriff of the county you live in. If you hold one and want it in your married name, that is a call to your sheriff’s office. Alabama publishes no fee or deadline for the change, so ask rather than assume. If you carry across a state line, the other state’s rules apply and the permit may still be worth keeping current.

Everything else with your name on it. Nothing above reaches your employer, your bank, your insurers or your utilities. Our name change checklist is that list.

Licensed Professional?

  • Nurses. The Alabama Board of Nursing handles it online through My Profile, and there is a catch worth knowing before you start: the Board states that “name changes will not be saved until appropriate documentation has been received,” meaning a marriage certificate, divorce decree or probate court record. Upload the certified copy with the request or nothing happens. Alabama Board of Nursing: My Profile
  • Every other Alabama board. Each keeps its own form, its own proof requirements and its own timetable, and none of them hear about your marriage from anybody else. Check each board you hold a license with.

Voter Registration

One line, one deadline: update your registration through the Alabama Secretary of State, and do it early, because ALEA’s own form states that “voter registration and updating of voter records is closed during the 14 days prior to each election in Alabama.”

Do not assume the license office does it for you. The DL-100 promises an automatic update only for a change of address, and says nothing about a name carrying across, so treat the voter record as its own errand.

So the Alabama order runs: record the certificate within 30 days and buy your certified copies at that counter, file SS-5 with Social Security and wait for the card, take both to a probate, licensing or ALEA office for the $31.25 duplicate, then the car title online, your voter registration, and any board or employer that will not hear it from anyone else. Our name change checklist covers the banks and accounts that follow, and you can compare how other states handle it if you have moved recently.

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Written by Danielle Tate · Categorized: Name Change After Marriage for Newlyweds, Newlywed Needs · Tagged: Alabama Name Change, Alambama, bride, Married Name Change, Name Change after Marriage, Name Change After Marriage for Newlyweds, Name Change Forms, Newlywed

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